Anonymous asked: hi, I really never ask for help but I feel like if I keep more things in my head and I dont talk I´ll die. I´m from Mexico city so if I spell something wrong, sorry haha I am 16 years old, recently one of my best friends and I kissed but he knows I´m in love wih someone else, who has a girlfriend, but that doesn´t stop him for giving me hopes up. My best friend told me he was in love with me, I was shocked! ´cause he is my ex´s best friend. I know i´m being used by the other guy but i love him!!
This sounds like a really big mess… but hun, you’re sooo young and this sounds so stressful. First of all, you’re saying that you know this other guy is using you, don’t give your love to someone like that. No matter how much you may like someone. Plus, he is already in a relationship with this other girl, so he is being disrespectful to both you and her. If you end up falling in love with someone, love someone who loves and respects you back. That is so important! But don’t get too caught up in this right now, okay? You’re so young and you should enjoy it while it lasts. You have the rest of your life to be so concerned about loving someone.
Anonymous asked: Heeey lovely! I am so glad you're back. And so proud of you. Bit I need your help. I trust you and you've helped me with my problems before, as well. There's this person I know, but we're not exactly friends. What can we talk about not to make it awkward? I'm not really intersting. I don't go out at all, nothing interesting ever happens to me. So, what can we talk about actually? And what can I talk about with people I don't know at all? How to make small talk? I love your blog, thank you. :) xx
Oh thank you! It’s had to manage everything, but I’m trying my best right now. I’m having this problem too, especially since my second semester at college just started. But small talk is easy, it wouldn’t be called small talk for any other reason, right? What actually helped me a bit before I had to introduce myself to new class members was think about what I really enjoyed the night before my first day. So what do you like? Music, sports, languages, art? What do you want to do in school/life? What are you studying? Food? Everybody likes food. What are your hobbies? Blogging? Same here~ :’) Don’t be afraid to be different and yourself. It’s nice to have common interests with the people around you but if you’re completely the same then what’s there to find out about the other person?
Don’t be ashamed or anything that you stay inside! I’m sure that once you make some friends you’ll all want to hang out and do fun things together. I have faith in you, have some faith in yourself, okay! :) xx <3